Parashat Ki Tissah 5770
The Profound Word
Howard S. Joseph
http://TheProfoundWord.com
Overwhelming Love: Fidelity, Infidelity and Renewal
In memory of my father, William Joseph [Ze'ev ben Zvi, z'l] who passed to his world on Adar 23.
The wedding ceremony is over. The plans for the couple’s new home and furnishings are prepared. Everything seems in order to produce a life of bliss. Then they begin to fall apart.
What happens?
The bride is certainly stiff-necked. This can be an admirable quality and certainly a factor in surviving hundreds of years of slavery.
Or, steeped in the idolatrous society of Egypt we should not be surprised that she easily stumbles into worship of the Golden Calf. The first of the Ten Commandments is broken and the tablets themselves shattered. What could trigger such a failure of this magnitude after Sinai seemed so certain. Where was the weakness?
The potential for failure is readily apparent in the description of the wedding itself. There we read of the terms expected by the groom. The bride says: we will do and we will obey, nothing more, nothing less. We do not hear from her what conditions she expects, what dreams she wants to fulfill, what aspirations he can help her achieve. At a wedding we celebrate “the voice of the groom, the voice of the bride.” At Sinai, we do not hear the voice of the bride. She is overwhelmed by the groom; her participation minimal. This is a recipe for failure.
In fact, rabbinic tradition sees this weakness from the very beginning. Actually, the whole foundation of the Sinai Covenant is questioned because overwhelming force was used by God to assure acceptance. In Tractate Shabbat [88a] we find:
They stood beneath the mountain (Sinai) (Ex. 19:17). Rav Abdimi ben Hama ben Hasa commented: This teaches that the Blessed Holy One lifted the mountain over their heads like a tub and said: if you accept the Torah, fine; if not, you will be buried here. Said Rav Aha ben Jacob: this is a strong protest about the (validity of the) Torah (i. e., because it was forced upon us we really are not ultimately responsible to obey it.)
Being overwhelmed we lost our free will. It was impossible to resist. Later on, during calmer moments of reflection, we might come to regret our enthusiastic response of “we will do and we will obey”. It seemed so right and wonderful at the moment but now we are not so sure.
That is because there are two types of wonders and miracles. Miracles can appear in highly visible and obvious forms. They are overwhelmingly convincing to the witnesses and leave no doubt about their presence. “What a handmaiden saw at the splitting of the Sea even the Prophet Ezekiel did not see.” This redemptive event was so convincing that anyone, even a non‑prophet, could see the hand of God operating in human affairs. Tradition calls this a ‘nes nigleh,’ a revealed or open miracle or sign.
However, there is also what is known as ‘nes nistar,’ hidden signs or wonders, mysteriously embedded in what appears to be a pattern of ordinary events. The protagonists seem to be acting from everyday impulses of greed, fear, jealousy or altruism. Yet, when all is said and done, and a redemptive ending results from an initial potentially disastrous set of circumstances, it is apparent that hidden behind the events was the Source of redemption, the Protector and Redeemer of Israel. Neziv suggests Purim as a primary example.
What was the coercion at Sinai? What is the tub uplifted above their heads? It is probably none other than the ‘nes nigleh‘ itself, the overpowering and compelling signs and wonders visible at the time, coming as they did at the end of the series of wonders they experienced prior to and during the Exodus. Fire and smoke, thunder and lightning, the voice of God: who could resist? Our freedom had been neutralized, rendered inoperative. This extraordinary event was irresistible but as an extraordinary event it was ultimately flawed. It may have been necessary to quickly stimulate fidelity. But it was insufficient to promote long term commitment. It did not prevent the deterioration into idolatry at the moment of disappointment in Moses’ tardy descent from the mountain. The Golden Calf was the result. Sinai was imperfect for what relevance could it have to everyday living wherein we must use our freedom to judge the quality of events and determine our response to them, to recognize holiness in the course of human affairs and everyday phenomena.
So, the fault and failure of Sinai, the strong protest over the validity of the acceptance of the Torah is none other than the overwhelming love and power shown to Israel at that moment. God appeared to them as a wise elder, providing loving guidance. It was difficult to refuse. A covenant, a marriage must be freely entered, freely engaged. Otherwise, it is doomed.
Neziv is very sensitive to this dynamic. When Moses is instructed by God to carve out new tablets and ascend the mountain so God can re-write the commandments, he is told:
The Lord said to Moses: Hew for yourself two stone tablets like the first ones. And I will inscribe upon the tablets the words that were on the first tablets, which you broke. [34:1]
The question arises as to the status of the second tablets. The first set seemed to be totally prepared by God, both hewn and written. Here it is Moses who must hew and prepare the stones. God will then do the writing. The strange expression is the last phrase: which you broke. We know this already. Why are we reminded that Moses broke the tablets? Is it a criticism or is it a compliment? Let’s see how Neziv handles this.
We must begin with the words of Rabbi Abraham Ibn Ezra [in his commentary] quoting a Gaon, z’l [one of the supreme Jewish religious leaders of medieval Babylon] who says that the second tablets were more honored than the first. Ibn Ezra wrote about this comment that they are like words of fantasy. However, I think that the Gaon’s words are not at all empty of meaning. In [Midrash] Hazit there is a comment on the verse from Song of Songs: . His left hand was under my head, and his right hand would embrace me. It is explained as: His left hand was under my head, this refers to the first tablets; his right hand would embrace me, this refers to the second tablets. [The right hand is usually considered to be more important or honored than the left-hsj]
In Midrash Rabbah [Ex 47:7] we are told: It is written, It is good for me that I have been afflicted, in order that I might learn Thy statutes (Ps. 119:7). [This means that] It was for the benefit of Moses that he fasted a hundred and twenty days, so that he might receive the Torah…. Whereupon God said: You are distressed! Well, I assure you that you will not lose anything; for on the first tablets were only the Decalogue, but since you have now suffered so much, I will give you also Halakhot, Midrash, and Haggadoth….’
Neziv now explains the difference between the two sets of tablets.
The meaning of this is that in the first tablets there was not given the power of innovative interpretation, but only what Moses received [from God] as the precise interpretation of the verses and the halakhot that derive from them. However, there was no process of innovation using the thirteen principles of Talmudic reasoning as was later done in the Talmudic discussions. There was no Oral Torah except that which was delivered by Moses or that which was learned from analogy.
However, with the second tablets to every conscientious scholar was given the power to innovate halakhic matters through the thirteen principles and Talmudic processes.
At first, only Moses and his family were involved in this. However, in the Plains of Moab [at the end of the desert wanderings-hsj] Moses encouraged all Israel to engage in this process as well.
The incident of the Golden Calf was the cause of all this change….
For this very reason God commanded that the second tablets should be hewn by Moses. It was not because Israel did not merit to have tablets hewn by God but rather to show that the power of innovative halakhic thinking in these second tablets is the partnership of human effort and Heavenly assistance [siyatah dishemayah]. This is similar to the second tablets themselves that were a combination of Moses’ effort and God’s writing. Even here we see later on [verse 27] that Moses did some of the writing as well….
This is what our Sages meant when they said that whatever a conscientious scholar will innovate through serious Torah study was actually in the second tablets.
This is what the Gaon meant to teach us: in this particular point the second tablets were more honored than the first. However, the holiness of the first tablets was greater. If they had not been destroyed it would have been easier to reach the necessary teachings through reasoning and analogy. However, since we deteriorated [through the Golden Calf] and now we need to struggle to sharpen the ’sword of Torah’, the second tablets are more suited for this.
A similar distinction between holy and honorable exists between the two Talmuds. The Jerusalem Talmud is holier than the Babylonian because it reflects the views of the earlier Amoraic sages….Also, the holiness of the Land of Israel helped as well. However, we know that the power of the Babylonian Talmud was more honored…. for it had the wondrous power to enlighten even the dark places such as Babylon and other Diaspora communities. Without this we would not have achieved the light of learning in these places. This is similar to the difference between the first and second tablets.
Similarly, this seems to be the meaning of the statement in Tractate Menahot [89a,b]: Resh Lakish said: There are times when abolishing the Torah may be the foundation of the Torah, for it is written, ‘Which you broke’: The Blessed Holy One said to Moses, you did well to break them’!
Accordingly, abolishing the Torah, that is, the breaking of the tablets, is itself its foundation. Because of it the second tablets were given in a different way based on the foundation of innovation and effort. That is why God congratulates Moses for breaking the tablets so that the second tablets could be given in a different manner
Wow! The Torah itself teaches us that the idyllic Sinai scene was faulty. The covenant was not realistic nor sustainable. It had to be broken in order to be rebuilt on a new foundation. Israel had to be an active participant in its own destiny. Israel had to be allowed the creativity to compensate for its own weaknesses and the wide variety of circumstances it would face in various historical moments. This could only be accomplished as partners with God. The new covenant includes an invitation to Israel to be studious, creative and innovative. It is, therefore, an open covenant that will grow over the centuries as the pages of Talmud and subsequent commentaries, responsa and codes are written. Israel, the proud, independent minded and compassionate bride must and will be an active partner in this marriage.
The first tablets were as rigid and frightful as the overwhelming scene on and ‘below’ the mountain. They represent the Written Torah. However, it is the Oral Torah that enables Israel to be a dominant force in its own destiny. No heavenly voices could interfere. It is in our hands and with God’s blessing we will prevail. These are Neziv’s profound words for this week.
Overwhelming love just as any other overwhelming force is a danger to human freedom and dignity. Remember Jacob’s fear of Esau. Think of the story of the spies in the desert. They returned saying that: we were like grasshoppers in their eyes and in our own eyes as well. Think as well of highly charismatic leaders and teachers who use their popularity for destructive purposes. Losing yourself and your self confidence as well as the ability to clearly think lead to incorrect assessments of reality and improper decisions.
We were warned in the psalms: do not trust in princes, in a human being who can not offer salvation. [146:3] Yet we often give too much trust to others and repeat this mistake endlessly. Is it because life and especially modern life presents us with so many choices, and, as Kierkegaard pointed out, we often see ourselves drowning in a sea of possibilities? We surrender our choice to others as we are overwhelmed by them.
Moses, congratulations, for you broke the tablets. Yes, you saved Israel from being overwhelmed by a loving and irresistible God who showered us with miracles, wonders and wise guidance. It was very attractive, hard to say no, and we said a resounding yes. Some distance and some freedom even from God keeps us human and, therefore, a much more viable partner for God. Maintaining ourselves in the image of our free and creative God makes us more worthy for our loving and beloved God. That is why God congratulated Moses.
Finally, we return to the Talmudic discussion with which we began [Shabbat 88a]. It continues:
(Do not worry) Said Raba, they repeated their acceptance at Purim, as it is said: they fulfilled and accepted ‑ they now fulfilled (willingly) what they had previously accepted (under coercion)..
The second tablets provide the potential for covenant renewal. However, as we see here and in Neziv’s commentary on Purim, that potential is only actualized much later on with the holiday of Purim. The first Temple period is one of rampant idolatry. With the emergence of the strength of the Sages of the Oral Torah to leadership, idolatry ceases to be a stumbling block issue. The sword of Oral Torah is sharpened. The future appears much more promising for fidelity and partnership have stabilized the covenant.
Shabbat Shalom
Hayyim Shemuel Yosef
Adar 20 5770
March 6, 2010
A weekly parashah essay based on the writings of Rabbi Naphtali Zvi Yehudah Berlin, the Neziv, in Ha’amek Davar [HD] and Harhev Davar [HRD]. Please feel free to distribute this material for educational purposes. All rights reserved.
