Parashat Aharei-Mot Kedoshim 5770
The Profound Word
Howard S. Joseph
Loving Your Neighbor
…you shall love your neighbor as yourself; I am the Lord.
Lev. 19:18
Our parashah this week contains what is arguably the most famous Torah verse. Often quoted on its own it is easy to ignore the fact that is actually the last half of an entire verse or that is in a portion where the major heading : You shall be holy; for I the Lord your God am holy addressed to the entire congregation of the people of Israel. 19:2
Besides this context there are quite a few other prescriptions in this section. Here it is in its entirety, or, at least up to and including our verse:
1. And the Lord spoke to Moses, saying,
2. Speak to all the congregation of the people of Israel, and say to them, You shall be holy; for I the Lord your God am holy.
3. You shall revere every man his mother, and his father, and keep my Sabbaths; I am the Lord your God.
4. Turn you not to idols, nor make to yourselves molten gods; I am the Lord your God.
5. And if you offer a sacrifice of peace offerings to the Lord, you shall offer it of your own will.
6. It shall be eaten the same day you offer it, and on the next day; and if anything remains until the third day, it shall be burned in the fire.
7. And if it is eaten at all on the third day, it is abominable; it shall not be accepted.
8. Therefore every one who eats it shall bear his iniquity, because he has profaned the consecrated thing of the Lord; and that soul shall be cut off from among his people.
9. And when you reap the harvest of your land, you shall not reap to the very corners of your field, nor shall you gather the gleanings of your harvest.
10. And you shall not glean your vineyard, nor shall you gather every grape of your vineyard; you shall leave them for the poor and stranger; I am the Lord your God.
11. You shall not steal, nor deal falsely, nor lie one to another.
12. And you shall not swear by my name falsely, nor shall you profane the name of your God; I am the Lord.
13. You shall not defraud your neighbor, nor rob him; the wages of he who is hired shall not remain with you all night until the morning.
14. You shall not curse the deaf, nor put a stumbling block before the blind, but shall fear your God; I am the Lord.
15. You shall do no unrighteousness in judgment; you shall not respect the person of the poor, nor honor the person of the mighty; but in righteousness shall you judge your neighbor.
16. You shall not go up and down as a slanderer among your people; nor shall you stand against the blood of your neighbor; I am the Lord.
17. You shall not hate your brother in your heart; you shall reason with your neighbor, and not allow sin on his account.
18. You shall not avenge, nor bear any grudge against the children of your people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself; I am the Lord.
The charge to be a holy nation includes activities that are worship related as well as socially directed, and our verse is found in the latter. These are prescriptions for good neighborly relations in a society and certainly can be viewed as guidelines that conform with human reason, albeit with the ending that reminds us that they are given with God’s authority: I am the Lord [YHWH].
Why is that important? Here we refer to Neziv’s comments back at Mt. Sinai [Ex. 19:6].
And you shall be to Me a kingdom of princes[lit. kohanim] and a holy nation. These are the words that you shall speak to the children of Israel.
Neziv comments on the notion of a holy nation:
In matters of Torah and worship it makes no sense to speak of being different from the nations for they are not commanded regarding these. However, in matters of kindness they are commanded. And, ‘for Mine is the entire earth’ therefore, means that they too are mine. In the merit of kindness they survive. However, you must excel in kindness in that you will do it for me. This condition is opposite the phrase ‘I brought you to me’. Until now God raised their consciousness to the spirit of holiness without expecting reciprocity. Now, however, the exalted state of holiness can only be achieved through excellence in this matter of doing everything for the sake of Heaven. Then you will achieve the level of the spirit of holiness and knowledge of God.
So, one of the major goals of the covenant is to raise kindness from something that is reasonable to do to a demand of the Creator so that the world can indeed survive. [Please see the comments on Parashat Yitro and Parashat Mishpatim 5770 for more on this subject.]
Now to our verse. Societal kindness is a necessity but what else can we learn from our verse, the entire verse in which the ‘love’ command is embedded? You shall not avenge, nor bear any grudge against the children of your people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself; I am the Lord. How do revenge and bearing a grudge fit in with our goal? And, what does ‘as yourself’ add to the message. Why isn’t loving your neighbor sufficient?
Neziv explains:
It is impossible to understand this in its simple sense for we know the [Talmudic principle] that ‘your life has priority over someone else’s life’.
However, Maimonides explained [Laws of the Mourner 14] that it means ‘as you expect from your neighbor’. This is understandable for a person would not think that his neighbor would love him exactly as he does himself but only within proper limits according to their closeness and general moral manners. In this manner it is your obligation to love others.
According to this explanation [of Maimonides] we see the connection to the early part of the verse [regarding vengeance]. Just as if you wronged someone you would hope that he would forgive you and not seek revenge, so too you should behave toward your neighbor.
However, from the language of the [Talmud] Yerushalmi, Nedarim 9:4, I learned another reason for the relationship of the first and last part of the verse. It says: ‘If someone accidentally cut their hand with a knife, is it conceivable that that person would cut the hand that cut [in retaliation]? Do not both belong to the same person? After all, it is written ‘you shall be loving to your neighbor as yourself’, upon which Rabbi Akiva says, ‘this is a great principle of the Torah.’
This means that vengeance against someone is like a person carelessly cutting meat and the hand with the knife cuts his other hand. Is it conceivable that he would take vengeance upon the hand that cut the other? So the command to love following the prohibition of vengeance means that even though my life and wellness precedes that of another still this is like the person himself. Even though it is not proper for one limb to hit another, yet, if it did so, vengeance should not be taken. This is the meaning of ‘kamokhah’, as yourself, because all Israel is one being [nefesh ahat].
Social solidarity is founded on this sense that all are part of one organic whole. We must be able to depend upon each for support and mutual acts of kindness. The great principle, as Rabbi Akiva called it must prevail. It must be applied to all situations and all issues.
One of the Talmudic discussions imagines a situation in which a person is somehow convicted of two different death penalties. [In ancient times the Talmud speaks of four different types of death penalty with different levels of severity.] What should one do in this case? Since two death penalties are impossible to administer should we then use the more harsh penalty because of the obvious wickedness of the person? The answer, based on the great principle of being loving to your neighbor as yourself, is no. The court must choose the easier penalty for the criminal is still ‘as yourself.’
Neziv has once again moved us from the obvious meaning of a great text toward a more profound understanding of its foundational significance for our moral and social life.
Shabbat Shalom
Hayyim Shemuel Yosef
10 Iyar 5770
April 24, 2010
A weekly parashah essay based on the writings of Rabbi Naphtali Zvi Yehudah Berlin, the Neziv, in Ha’amek Davar [HD] and Harhev Davar [HRD]. Please feel free to distribute this material for educational purposes. All rights reserved.
